An Experience In Humanity: Things as They Really Are

Our spirit and our body are combined in such a way
that our body becomes an instrument of our mind and the foundation of our character.

-Boyd K.Packer

"The Spirit speaketh the truth and lieth not.
Wherefore, it speaketh of things as they really are,
and of things as they really will be;
wherefore, these things are manifested unto us plainly,
for the salvation of our souls."
Jacob 4:13

I have been working on multiple posts for several weeks, but have not yet posted them. Not because I don't know what to write - in fact, it's quite the opposite in that I often feel like I have too much to write - but because I haven't been able to make myself sit down at my computer long enough to finish one. I admit, I have a love/hate relationship with my computer, and my cell phone, and my alarm clock.....

It's somewhat ironic, as this post is related to and a result of the post I am currently working on, the topic of which has led me make an effort to spend less time at my computer, but is something I earnestly wish to share. Don't worry, I will get there and will hopefully have it edited and up to par by next week.

So, what is it that has caused me to neglect my blog so soon after making a commitment to post more often? It will become more apparent with my next post, but you can read these two articles now to more fully understand.

The first article -Things as They Really Are - is a talk by Elder David A. Bednar that I read in the Ensign several months ago. It really resonated with me and makes a strong statement about the need for balance between the benefits and detriments of modern communication technologies:

We live at a time when technology can be used to replicate reality, to augment reality, and to create virtual reality....I raise an apostolic voice of warning about the potentially stifling, suffocating, suppressing, and constraining impact of some kinds of cyberspace interactions and experiences upon our souls. The concerns I raise are not new; they apply equally to other types of media, such as television, movies, and music.

Please be careful of becoming so immersed and engrossed in pixels, texting, earbuds, twittering, online social networking, and potentially addictive uses of media and the Internet that you fail to recognize the importance of your physical body and miss the richness of person-to-person communication. Beware of digital displays and data in many forms of computer-mediated interaction that can displace the full range of physical capacity and experience....Progressively, seemingly innocent entertainment can become a form of pernicious enslavement.

To feel the warmth of a tender hug from an eternal companion or to see the sincerity in the eyes of another person as testimony is shared—all of these things experienced as they really are through the instrument of our physical body—could be sacrificed for a high-fidelity fantasy that has no lasting value. If you and I are not vigilant, we can become “past feeling”...

I am not suggesting all technology is inherently bad; it is not. Nor am I saying we should not use its many capabilities in appropriate ways to learn, to communicate, to lift and brighten lives, and to build and strengthen the Church; of course we should. But I am raising a warning voice that we should not squander and damage authentic relationships by obsessing over contrived ones.

Let me say again: neither technology nor rapid change in or of itself is good or evil; the real challenge is to understand both within the context of the eternal plan of happiness.

The second article - Reconnect Your Brain - is one that was shared by a friend today (online no less) and got me reminiscing about my time in Haiti and longing for a 'technology free' vacation from the world. I have to say, that while cell phones and email have so many wonderful benefits, I often miss the days when I wasn't expected to be available and connected all the time.

I've often thought about the possibility of cutting out certain technologies from my daily life - but realize that removing myself from the progression of the world is not the most beneficial or realistic option. It's not about rejecting or avoiding technologies, but prioritizing and managing the precedence they take in my life.

Elder Bednar offered two questions for consideration when making decisions about technology use:

1. Does the use of various technologies and media invite or impede the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost in your life?

2. Does the time you spend using various technologies and media enlarge or restrict your capacity to live, to love, and to serve in meaningful ways?

So, never fear - my reasons for not posting lately (and so soon after making a promise to post more often) have nothing to do with becoming 'stagnant' again. I just, quite simply, am spending more time outside enjoying the wonderful summer weather - unplugged from electrical outlets and connecting with other people in a more 'natural' way. And don't worry, I'll still be working on creating interesting and meaningful posts...they just may be a little more spread out while the rare and all too short New England summer sun is shining.

Speaking of enjoying, connecting, and reminiscing, here are a few of my favorite experiences of past 'natural life connections' made possible to capture and share with you through modern technology. :)

Random outbursts of silliness and joy...